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(6)</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2019-06-17T00:50:20+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2019/04/24/i-am-not-a-hugger/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/04/priscilla-du-preez-306214-unsplash.jpg</image:loc><image:title>priscilla-du-preez-306214-unsplash</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2024-09-05T04:34:12+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2018/09/16/how-to-feel-when-the-good-die-young/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/img_0792-copy.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0792 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know bisexual bros. 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I am an adult.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/20763789.jpg</image:loc><image:title>20763789</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2019-04-26T01:48:36+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2014/09/15/blog-tour-the-sexy-librarians-big-book-of-erotica/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/4bfefd26a7a82ed3d099da10edd8193c.jpg</image:loc><image:title>4bfefd26a7a82ed3d099da10edd8193c</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/4e36338e2890952bef47269bb6d39da7.jpg</image:loc><image:title>4e36338e2890952bef47269bb6d39da7</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2019-04-26T01:48:21+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2014/10/25/the-cool-girls-of-penthouse-variations-on-oral/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/phvar_oral.jpg</image:loc><image:title>PHVAR_oral</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2019-04-26T01:48:07+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2014/10/21/book-review-sex-cupcakes/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/15556539042_77341e9cb0.jpg</image:loc><image:title>15556539042_77341e9cb0</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2019-04-26T01:47:52+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2014/12/28/book-review-femme-fatale/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/gdp002-femmefatale_30.jpg</image:loc><image:title>GDP002-FemmeFatale_30</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2019-04-26T01:47:22+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/02/24/bachelorella-recap-week-8-sex-love-and-the-issue-of-choice/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/b-ktqs_viae0o9m.jpg</image:loc><image:title>B-ktQs_VIAE0o9m</image:title><image:caption>Whitney is THIRSTY. 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face emoji</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/emotionally-compromised.gif</image:loc><image:title>emotionally compromised</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/do-you-like-me.gif</image:loc><image:title>do you like me</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/img_6326.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_6326</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/img_4687.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_4687</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/img_5624.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_5624</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/texty-text.gif</image:loc><image:title>texty text</image:title><image:caption>Real talk.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2019-04-26T01:44:11+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2017/07/11/roadhouse-blues-by-malin-james/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/roadhouseblues_cover-620x930-e1499771729369.jpg</image:loc><image:title>RoadhouseBlues_Cover-620x930</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2019-04-26T01:42:25+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2019/02/14/valentines-day-on-a-college-campus/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/02/img_2080.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2080</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2019-03-10T03:32:04+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2016/01/24/why-having-a-boyfriend-doesnt-cure-herpes/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/radical-slut-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>radical 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slut</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2019-02-20T16:51:54+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2018/12/16/4-books-to-read-if-youre-worried-you-dont-know-how-to-love/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/IMG_8725.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_8725</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/IMG_8484-e1544994616105.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_8484</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/IMG_9818.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_9818</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/IMG_9677.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_9677</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/s-a-r-a-h-s-h-a-r-p-973513-unsplash.jpg</image:loc><image:title>s-a-r-a-h-s-h-a-r-p-973513-unsplash</image:title><image:caption>Photo 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graphic has been circulating on tumblr and should be seen by everyone.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2017-11-07T03:24:03+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/01/24/my-characters-care-about-safe-sex-because-i-have-to/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/img_4634.png</image:loc><image:title>IMG_4634</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/img_2249.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2249</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2018-09-17T16:42:40+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/03/05/in-honor-of-erotic-world-book-day-lets-read-my-first-erotica/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/tom-riddle-christian-coulson-10908617-800-450.jpg</image:loc><image:title>tom-riddle-christian-coulson-10908617-800-450</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-11-07T03:07:25+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2014/10/01/bros-like-erotica-too-why-i-dont-write-erotica-for-women/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/untitled-design-3.png</image:loc><image:title>Untitled 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dashboard/food truck combo.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/img_4242.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_4242</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/img_4296.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_4296</image:title><image:caption>Holy Instagram filter, Batman!</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-03-30T01:16:01+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/01/14/bachelorella-recap-week-2-widows-and-virgins-and-whores-oh-my/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/afa57b3e7b512ad674be710861497eeffbdddd2b.jpg</image:loc><image:title>afa57b3e7b512ad674be710861497eeffbdddd2b</image:title><image:caption>This week, Ashley I. threw down the virginity gauntlet.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-03-30T01:14:51+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/01/20/bachelorella-recap-week-3-is-this-the-season-of-gender-equitable-slut-shaming/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/2190de40-a044-11e4-8b19-83edf819c684_screen-shot-2015-01-17-at-10-46-55-pm.png</image:loc><image:title>2190de40-a044-11e4-8b19-83edf819c684_Screen-Shot-2015-01-17-at-10-46-55-PM</image:title><image:caption>Chris macks on all the bitches. The bitches notice and get pissed.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-03-30T01:14:47+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/01/28/bachelorella-recap-week-4-prince-farming-cinderella-and-a-kardashian-stepsister/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/251a8cc200000578-0-image-m-81_1422344489459.jpg</image:loc><image:title>251A8CC200000578-0-image-m-81_1422344489459</image:title><image:caption>Ashley I. has a Grade A spoiled pouty face.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/b8ui0lmceaamjyy.jpg</image:loc><image:title>B8Ui0lmCEAAMJYy</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/b8u_scniyaavfqs.jpg</image:loc><image:title>B8U_scnIYAAvFQs</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-03-30T01:14:34+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/02/02/bachelorella-recap-week-5-kelsey-the-4th-wall-whose-tv-show-is-this/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/b84v0jmcuaaxtts.jpg</image:loc><image:title>B84v0JmCUAAxtts</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-03-30T01:14:05+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/02/11/bachelorella-recap-week-6-what-makes-a-woman-perfect-for-chris/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/b9cui8kciaach5u.jpg</image:loc><image:title>B9cuI8KCIAACh5u</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/b9dd0bwcyaesyyc.png</image:loc><image:title>B9dd0BWCYAESYyc</image:title><image:caption>Ashley vs. Kelsey.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-03-30T01:14:01+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/02/15/journal-entry-what-happens-after-you-tell-the-internet-you-have-herpes/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/img_48481.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_4848</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/img_4848.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_4848</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2019-12-29T22:28:21+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/02/26/some-thoughts-on-split-ends/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/photo-on-2-24-15-at-1-31-pm-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Photo on 2-24-15 at 1.31 PM #2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/img_4754.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_4754</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-03-30T01:12:37+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/03/03/bachelorella-recap-week-9-lady-on-lady-crime/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/ashley-laugh.gif</image:loc><image:title>Ashley laugh</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/britt-lip.gif</image:loc><image:title>Britt lip</image:title><image:caption>Don't lip-quiver, sweet Britt. One has to learn how to fight the patriarchy. It doesn't always come naturally.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/tara-wtf.gif</image:loc><image:title>Tara wtf</image:title><image:caption>Tara can't even with this shit.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/ashley-bitch-please.gif</image:loc><image:title>Ashley Bitch Please</image:title><image:caption>Ashley I. brought the facial expressions this week.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-03-30T01:12:31+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/03/09/bachelorella-finale-recap-why-having-two-bachelorettes-is-bullshit/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/b_td7eowyaep9r5.jpg</image:loc><image:title>B_tD7EoWYAEp9R5</image:title><image:caption>From The Bachelorette Twitter: "It's a #TheBachelorette first! Who will the guys choose: #TeamBritt or #TeamKaitlyn?"</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/screen-shot-2015-03-09-at-10-02-48-pm-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Screen Shot 2015-03-09 at 10.02.48 PM 1</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-03-30T01:12:24+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/03/10/bachelorella-update-bachelor-nation-turns-on-itself-calls-out-its-sexism/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/the-bachelorette-logo1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>the-bachelorette-logo</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/the-bachelorette-logo.jpg</image:loc><image:title>the-bachelorette-logo</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-03-30T01:12:18+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/04/01/the-badass-women-of-ted/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/img_5105.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_5105</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/43d48f4cb3f53fcc68390e49-version-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>43d48f4cb3f53fcc68390e49 - Version 2</image:title><image:caption>Big TED, little Ella.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/editorial-warriors.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Editorial-warriors</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-03-30T01:11:09+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/04/05/i-went-to-the-outlander-premiere-where-everyone-laughed-at-domestic-violence/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/img_5331.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_5331</image:title><image:caption>This is the face of someone who does not know why she is at the Outlander premiere.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-03-30T01:10:58+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/04/14/5-rules-for-better-herpes-journalism-or-i-wrote-about-dating-for-womens-heath/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/womens-health.jpg</image:loc><image:title>women's-health</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-07-14T08:38:41+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/04/26/why-i-shouldnt-be-the-only-face-of-herpes/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/cdyzg65w0aacdrl.png</image:loc><image:title>CDYZg65W0AACdRl</image:title><image:caption>Flashback to the scariest moment of my life: me on HuffPostLive.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-03-30T01:10:17+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/05/05/wesleyan-argus-is-bae-or-everyone-at-wesleyan-has-herpes/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/screen-shot-2015-05-05-at-8-51-18-am.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Screen Shot 2015-05-05 at 8.51.18 AM</image:title><image:caption>No seriously, herpes puns are the best.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/screen-shot-2015-05-03-at-11-44-35-am.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Screen Shot 2015-05-03 at 11.44.35 AM</image:title><image:caption>Even the ACB (Wesleyan Anonymous Confessions Board) had only hilariously kind things to say about my herpes fame.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-03-30T01:10:12+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/05/18/bachelorella-how-the-bachelorette-got-bystander-intervention-right/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/cfvftb1wgaaplmn.png</image:loc><image:title>CFVftB1WgAAPlMN</image:title><image:caption>The men of The Bachelorette dealt with sexual harasser Ryan swiftly, without excuses. Screencap by @bricesander.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-03-30T01:09:21+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/05/25/bachelorella-the-literal-battle-of-the-bros/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/cf5tnhguuaall1m.jpg</image:loc><image:title>CF5TNhGUUAAll1m</image:title><image:caption>Ben Z. gives me feelings.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-03-30T01:09:09+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/07/12/why-herpes-is-an-opportunity-talking-herpes-with-adrial-dale/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/herp-opp-logo-lg.gif</image:loc><image:title>herp-opp-logo-lg</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/adrial-dale-050.jpg</image:loc><image:caption>Look at that big, reassuring smile. What a dude.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-03-30T01:06:50+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/07/13/bachelorella-can-we-skip-this-season-and-get-to-the-bachelor/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/4712fd60-0ba4-0133-f4af-0e18518aac2f.jpg</image:loc><image:title>4712fd60-0ba4-0133-f4af-0e18518aac2f</image:title><image:caption>Ben H. will you accept this rose please I love you.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2018-03-27T03:28:40+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/07/20/bachelorella-the-bachelorette-gets-real-about-online-harassment/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/ckzsl-jueae_ahv.jpg</image:loc><image:title>CKZsl-JUEAE_ahV</image:title><image:caption>Source: @BacheloretteABC</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-03-30T01:05:50+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/08/07/the-herpes-interviews-the-best-friend/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/qilube.png</image:loc><image:title>QILube</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/qivaginas.png</image:loc><image:title>QIVaginas</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/qivoice.png</image:loc><image:title>QIVoice</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/qiweird.png</image:loc><image:title>QIweird</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/qiconversation.png</image:loc><image:title>QIConversation</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/qicharacter.png</image:loc><image:title>QICharacter</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/qirelationships.png</image:loc><image:title>QIrelationships</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-07-04T01:10:57+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/08/10/unpopular-opinion-i-hate-last-week-tonight-with-john-olivers-sex-education-segment/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/ntnjmtmxyja4ysmvrwg1z3hfenzjber5c1k4s2fyugz1wnnwrjlbps8znhgzojezmdr4njizlzeyodb4njiwl2zpbhrlcnm6cxvhbgl0esg3nskvahr0chm6ly9zmy5hbwf6b25hd3muy29tl3bvbgljew1pyy1pbwfnzxmva3nhywkyb3hrzmlrnm.jpg</image:loc><image:title>NTNjMTMxYjA4YSMvRWg1Z3hfenZJbER5c1k4S2FyUGZ1WnNwRjlBPS8zNHgzOjEzMDR4NjIzLzEyODB4NjIwL2ZpbHRlcnM6cXVhbGl0eSg3NSkvaHR0cHM6Ly9zMy5hbWF6b25hd3MuY29tL3BvbGljeW1pYy1pbWFnZXMva3NhYWkyb3hrZmlrNm5odXV1ZW1ndnFib3BoY2lqY3NxY3R1aGllOHFzYmR5eWRveXhicWtmZndic3lvcn</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-02-28T00:47:21+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/08/26/who-would-i-be-if-i-hadnt-gotten-herpes/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/2-atamoe.jpg</image:loc><image:title>2-ATaMOe</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/cnjwpzvxaaamiam.png</image:loc><image:title>CNJWpzvXAAAMiAM</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/could-have-been.jpg</image:loc><image:title>could-have-been</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-03-30T01:04:49+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/09/11/some-thoughts-on-going-viral-again/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/tears.jpg</image:loc><image:title>tears</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/gif2-cfe4a91f8eda196d439f1e8f167b61b5.gif</image:loc><image:title>gif2-cfe4a91f8eda196d439f1e8f167b61b5</image:title><image:caption>Source: Upworthy</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/gif5-425e1f6c13ed315f0d58cfa4e5e4bbe8.gif</image:loc><image:title>gif5-425e1f6c13ed315f0d58cfa4e5e4bbe8</image:title><image:caption>Source: Parker Molloy, Upworthy.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/a-girl-like-you.gif</image:loc><image:title>a girl like you</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-03-30T01:04:20+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/09/12/a-lesson-in-herpes-stigma-via-facebook-comments/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/buzzfeed-post.jpg</image:loc><image:title>BuzzFeed post</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/bj-meme.jpg</image:loc><image:title>BJ meme</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/attention-meme.jpg</image:loc><image:title>attention meme</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/meme-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>meme 1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/meme-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>meme 2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/misinformation.jpg</image:loc><image:title>misinformation</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/im-just-the-worst.jpg</image:loc><image:title>I'm just the worst</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/normal-college-student.jpg</image:loc><image:title>normal college student</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/shut-your-legs.jpg</image:loc><image:title>shut your legs</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/skank.jpg</image:loc><image:title>skank</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2022-07-03T04:42:49+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/10/01/why-peeple-is-dangerous-to-survivors-and-really-anyone/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/cqlszfuvaaabw5o.png</image:loc><image:title>CQLsZfUVAAABW5O</image:title><image:caption>This is not a good way to respond to criticism.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/peeple-app-screenshot-jpg-size-xxlarge-promo.png</image:loc><image:title>peeple-app-screenshot.jpg.size.xxlarge.promo</image:title><image:caption>Ahh, white people. </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/aaeaaqaaaaaaaaueaaaajde0odnhmtu5lte0zdctndnhzc05njfiltnkywnmnzdhyzg1zg-624x215.png</image:loc><image:title>AAEAAQAAAAAAAAUEAAAAJDE0ODNhMTU5LTE0ZDctNDNhZC05NjFiLTNkYWNmNzdhYzg1Zg-624x215</image:title><image:caption>Hey Peeple, your logo and slogan suck.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2017-06-07T13:19:32+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/10/08/dear-internet-commenters-who-really-dont-want-herpes/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/comments-body.jpg</image:loc><image:title>comments-body</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2018-03-17T00:05:43+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/10/29/todays-headlines-on-the-who-herpes-report-ranked/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/ranked1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>RANKED</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/ranked.jpg</image:loc><image:title>RANKED</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/herpes-trending.jpg</image:loc><image:title>HERPES trending</image:title><image:caption>THIS WAS THE BEST DAY OF MY LIFE.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-03-30T00:59:16+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/11/04/writing-the-ones-you-loved-consent-in-sex-writing/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/consent-text.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Consent Text</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/fullsizerender-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>FullSizeRender-2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/fullsizerender-11.jpg</image:loc><image:title>FullSizeRender-1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/fullsizerender-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>FullSizeRender-1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/fullsizerender.jpg</image:loc><image:title>FullSizeRender</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-03-30T00:59:05+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/11/17/matt-lauer-asks-charlie-sheen-what-you-should-never-ask-someone-with-an-sti/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/screen-shot-2015-11-17-at-9-31-34-am.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Screen Shot 2015-11-17 at 9.31.34 AM</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/charlie-sheen-sam-today-tease-2-151117_78d8e505e25f4a574b0d068eaa80d6de-today-inline-large.jpg</image:loc><image:title>charlie-sheen-sam-today-tease-2-151117_78d8e505e25f4a574b0d068eaa80d6de.today-inline-large</image:title><image:caption>Photo credit Samantha Okazaki, Today.com</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2020-09-27T15:26:27+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/11/21/the-selfie-tradition-2015-edition/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/photo-on-11-21-15-at-9-03-am-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Photo on 11-21-15 at 9.03 AM #2</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-03-30T00:58:19+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/12/16/all-of-my-coworkers-know-i-have-herpes-its-great/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/ted_hq.png</image:loc><image:title>TED_HQ</image:title><image:caption>UPDATE: Please enjoy this screenshot of me gesturing with the comically bulky clicker.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/img_5137.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_5137</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-10-08T06:37:18+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/12/19/an-open-letter-to-the-woman-who-announced-her-sti-on-snapchat/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/2f7cb38200000578-3365942-image-m-3_1450454092683.jpg</image:loc><image:title>STD Snap Chat</image:title><image:caption>Girl takes to Snap Chat to tell her partners that she has an STD</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/2f7cb3f100000578-3365942-image-a-1_1450454060667.jpg</image:loc><image:title>STD Snap Chat</image:title><image:caption>Girl takes to Snap Chat to tell her partners that she has an STD</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-03-30T00:57:10+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2016/01/25/bachelorella-everyone-on-twitter-made-the-same-herpes-joke/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/czm7jd-w0aat8ez.jpg</image:loc><image:title>CZm7jd-W0AAt8Ez</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/tumblr_lt8sklatdm1r3eh7mo1_500.gif</image:loc><image:title>tumblr_lt8sklaTDM1r3eh7mo1_500</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-03-30T00:54:55+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/12/26/editors-picks-ellas-best-blogging-of-2015/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/113153.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Version 2</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-12-26T19:46:33+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/12/06/san-francisco-is-my-biggest-proudest-failure/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/unnamed.jpg</image:loc><image:title>unnamed</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-01-21T04:48:50+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/09/21/why-i-cut-my-hair/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/photo-on-9-12-15-at-8-46-pm-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Photo on 9-12-15 at 8.46 PM #2</image:title><image:caption>Ella: Then.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/img_7013.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Version 2</image:title><image:caption>Me: Now.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-11-22T06:41:05+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2014/12/26/the-parts-of-being-22-that-taylor-swift-left-out/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/tumblr_nfpsgqk7da1r1tezoo1_r2_400.gif</image:loc><image:title>tumblr_nfpsgqK7DA1r1tezoo1_r2_400</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/img_3177.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_3177</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/img_2571.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2571</image:title><image:caption>For the record, A Princess Bound is actually really, really good.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-07-31T15:00:59+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/03/08/journal-entry-brooklyn/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/img_4966.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_4966</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/img_4924.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_4924</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-07-31T14:55:07+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/06/04/dear-class-of-2015-or-dear-me-365-days-ago/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/img_2621.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2621</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-07-31T14:47:34+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2014/01/07/2014-look-at-you-being-a-real-person-and-stuff/</loc><lastmod>2015-05-04T14:12:44+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/02/14/book-review-best-womens-erotica-2015/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/img_0574.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0574</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-02-14T01:37:29+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/01/07/my-1st-blogiversary-heres-what-i-wrote-this-year-with-gifs/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/ellasmile.gif</image:loc><image:title>EllaSmile</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/ellavictory.gif</image:loc><image:title>ellavictory</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/senior-week.gif</image:loc><image:title>senior week</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/fuck-that.gif</image:loc><image:title>fuck that</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-01-12T12:42:05+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2015/01/06/bachelorella-week-1-recap-in-praise-of-the-sloppy-drunk-girl/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/fc0a7880-7780-0132-4383-0ebc4eccb42f.jpg</image:loc><image:title>fc0a7880-7780-0132-4383-0ebc4eccb42f</image:title><image:caption>You kiss before that first date, Chris and Britt. You follow your guts.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/chris-soules-next-bachelor-ftr.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Chris-Soules-next-bachelor-ftr</image:title><image:caption>Let's take a break to look at how cute and ~sensitive~ he is.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/b6oo_txccae9tus-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>B6oO_TXCcAE9tUS-1</image:title><image:caption>Chris Soules—dubbed Prince Farming by the poor, tragic souls over at ABC—is not the nice Iowa boy you think.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-01-07T05:18:57+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2014/06/29/how-to-make-yourself-feel-better-in-berkeley/</loc><lastmod>2014-12-13T18:57:54+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://elladawson.com/2014/11/26/sht-im-thankful-for-in-no-particular-order/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/img_3895-version-21.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_3895 - Version 2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/img_3895-version-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_3895 - Version 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selfie.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/photo-on-11-21-14-at-10-13-pm-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Photo on 11-21-14 at 10.13 PM #2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://elladawson.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/photo-on-11-21-13-at-9-46-pm-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Photo on 11-21-13 at 9.46 PM #2</image:title><image:caption>Photobooth, documenter of 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