A Sex Writer Takes a Thirst Trap

April 18, 2022.Reading time 5 minutes.

Did I care if people took my writing less seriously because I posted a lingerie selfie?

Survivor Brain

March 23, 2022.Reading time 2 minutes.

I am not exaggerating. I am not trying to ruin a good man’s life. I just want things to make sense. I want to be okay.

March 21, 2022.Reading time 11 minutes.

7/23/21: Okay, I have cried on the subway before, but crying while wearing a paper disposable face mask on the subway is a whole other experience.

January 22, 2022.Reading time 3 minutes.

Abusers can use love bombing as a way to destabilize partners and convince them to stay.

January 6, 2022.Reading time 5 minutes.

An adult woman choosing to post pictures of her body is not a cause for concern or a sign that she is mentally unwell.

January 1, 2022.Reading time 8 minutes.

For the first time in a long time, if ever, I am owning my anger toward men.

December 27, 2021.Reading time 4 minutes.

All I have ever wanted is to be told just how much I am wanted. “Such a good girl, good girl.”

December 15, 2021.Reading time 24 minutes.

It is always hard to pick favorites, but these are the books I find myself recommending again and again.

November 2, 2021.Reading time 3 minutes.

There’s an intimacy to holding hands. I don’t know anything like it.

October 26, 2021.Reading time 13 minutes.

Here’s some of the best simple management advice I heard when I became a manager for the first time.