Why You Should Have an Emergency Contact Person For Your Relationships

October 8, 2021.Reading time 7 minutes.

Deputize someone to tell you the unvarnished truth if they think you are dating the wrong person.

All The Fictional Sociopaths I’ve Loved

June 14, 2021.Reading time 27 minutes.

The sociopath boyfriend isn’t looking for a perfect little wife. He wants an accomplice.

April 26, 2021.Reading time 22 minutes.

He slapped me hard across the face and I am gone. I am no longer here in my body. I am somewhere else.

March 8, 2021.Reading time 32 minutes.

“I guess this is what I get for falling for a girl like you.” An insult tossed off so casually, so precisely designed to gut me.

February 18, 2021.Reading time 8 minutes.

Watching Promising Young Woman felt like taking a fork in my fist and then jabbing it into my right temple. The film left me bleeding for days.

December 21, 2020.Reading time 9 minutes.

While I’ve alluded to the less than ideal circumstances surrounding my herpes diagnosis, I’ve never told the story from start to finish.

November 18, 2020.Reading time 15 minutes.

No one ever talks about how sexual harassment disrupts your ability to just do your damn job.

March 3, 2020.Reading time 10 minutes.

At the end of the day, the best way for us to help our friend and their victim is to react in private.

July 3, 2019.Reading time 7 minutes.

Maybe not immediately, maybe not every single time, but reliably and honestly and with care.

November 20, 2018.Reading time 12 minutes.

Here is where you can find evidence of motive and intent so that no one tries to erase the role of misogyny in my death.