What I Wish I’d Known About Hookup Culture Before Going to College

August 13, 2019.Reading time 11 minutes.

You are not weak for having feelings. Getting pieces of yourself tangled up with someone else is part of the deal of sex sometimes. It’s not a crime to care.

You Deserve a Partner Who Texts You Back

July 3, 2019.Reading time 8 minutes.

Maybe not immediately, maybe not every single time, but reliably and honestly and with care.

Five Years Later, Wesleyan Is Still The Best Decision I’ve Ever Made

May 27, 2019.Reading time 10 minutes.

I love Wesleyan. I love it more tonight than I ever have because I see it for its faults and scars.

4 Books to Read If You’re Worried You Don’t Know How to Love

December 16, 2018.Reading time 12 minutes.

Here is my curriculum for the emotionally lost and intimacy challenged.

To Read In Case I Am Ever Murdered By a Man

November 20, 2018.Reading time 12 minutes.

Here is where you can find evidence of motive and intent so that no one tries to erase the role of misogyny in my death.

I’m Going to Listen to “Fight Song” on Repeat to Raise Money for Planned Parenthood

January 24, 2017.Reading time 5 minutes.

Yes, that song. The song we hated even before we heard it ad nauseum during the Clinton campaign.

10 Essays I Wrote In 2016 That Taught Me Who I Am

December 30, 2016.Reading time 12 minutes.

What a goddamn year.

What Herpes Activism Looks Like In Trump’s America

November 30, 2016.Reading time 7 minutes.

It’s time to do the systemic work and take on the underlying structural issues that make herpes stigma so powerful.

That Time Hillary Clinton Wrote Me a Letter

November 7, 2016.Reading time 3 minutes.

I stand with Hillary Clinton because she is the type of person who reads Medium essays by random twenty-four-year-old bloggers and tracks down her address to mail her a letter.