Stop Calling It “Casual Sex”

March 28, 2019.Reading time 13 minutes.

Our concept of “casual sex” has given us permission to be casual with each other’s humanity.

Writing The Other Love: Intimacy in Hookup Erotica

January 12, 2015.Reading time 8 minutes.

What do we call the non-loves? Or the almost loves? Or the could be loves, if things were different, if we let ourselves?

A Comprehensive Guide to Wesleyan References in My Erotica

December 6, 2014.Reading time 13 minutes.

It’s a long running joke that my erotica is full of Wesleyan references.

Senior week and wescam: Why we need #adultsexedmonth

June 3, 2014.Reading time 9 minutes.

The week before graduation at Wesleyan is referred to as “senior week.” When an underclassmen, senior week is the stuff of legend: a crazy final week of last minute hookups, road trips, alcohol-infused decision making, and out of control partying culminating in a gigantic party under a tent on the baseball field. Making senior week […]