When Your One-Night-Stand Ignores You On Campus
How humiliating and bizarre, to feel so close to someone and then watch him bolt out of the cafeteria when you got up to refill your Diet Coke.
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What I Wish I’d Known About Hookup Culture Before Going to College
You are not weak for having feelings. Getting pieces of yourself tangled up with someone else is part of the deal of sex sometimes. It’s not a crime to care.
Read MoreStop Calling It “Casual Sex”
Our concept of “casual sex” has given us permission to be casual with each other’s humanity.
Read MoreWriting The Other Love: Intimacy in Hookup Erotica
What do we call the non-loves? Or the almost loves? Or the could be loves, if things were different, if we let ourselves?
Read MoreA Comprehensive Guide to Wesleyan References in My Erotica
It’s a long running joke that my erotica is full of Wesleyan references.
Read MoreSenior week and wescam: Why we need #adultsexedmonth
The week before graduation at Wesleyan is referred to as “senior week.” When an underclassmen, senior week is the stuff of legend: a crazy final week of last minute hookups, road trips, alcohol-infused decision making, and out of control partying culminating in a gigantic party under a tent on the baseball field. Making senior week […]
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