How I Became Internet Famous for Having Herpes — and Why I’m Retiring

November 4, 2017.Reading time 39 minutes.

The moment you go viral, you lose all control over your story, your privacy and, in some ways, your future.

Writing The Other Love: Intimacy in Hookup Erotica

January 12, 2015.Reading time 8 minutes.

What do we call the non-loves? Or the almost loves? Or the could be loves, if things were different, if we let ourselves?