When Your One-Night-Stand Ignores You On Campus
How humiliating and bizarre, to feel so close to someone and then watch him bolt out of the cafeteria when you got up to refill your Diet Coke.
Read MoreHow humiliating and bizarre, to feel so close to someone and then watch him bolt out of the cafeteria when you got up to refill your Diet Coke.
Read MoreSex can be a vital language for two people who have run out of words, or for whom words are cheap and ineffective, unable to capture the wealth of tangled emotion still living in their chests.
Read MoreYou are not weak for having feelings. Getting pieces of yourself tangled up with someone else is part of the deal of sex sometimes. It’s not a crime to care.
Read MoreMaybe not immediately, maybe not every single time, but reliably and honestly and with care.
Read MoreOur concept of “casual sex” has given us permission to be casual with each other’s humanity.
Read MoreIn an environment where caring is usually a weakness, what do you do about a holiday centered on showing that you care?
Read More“It’s kind of nice to just say, f*ck it, it doesn’t matter, I’m going to be me, or we’re going to do us, and claim the freedom to figure your shit out.”
Read MorePeople living with herpes are real, and we deserve to see our experiences in film. Here’s a start.
Read MoreLet me be clear: “bad sex” isn’t rape. By “bad sex,” I mean the sex we have that we don’t want to have but consent to anyway.
Read MoreI didn’t want to fuck—I wanted to disappear inside of him where it was safe, nestled in the warmth of his approval.
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