A Sex Writer Takes a Thirst Trap

April 18, 2022.Reading time 5 minutes.

Did I care if people took my writing less seriously because I posted a lingerie selfie?

Britney Spears Deserves to Enjoy Her Nudes

January 6, 2022.Reading time 5 minutes.

An adult woman choosing to post pictures of her body is not a cause for concern or a sign that she is mentally unwell.

This Is For You

December 27, 2021.Reading time 4 minutes.

All I have ever wanted is to be told just how much I am wanted. “Such a good girl, good girl.”

On Holding Hands

November 2, 2021.Reading time 3 minutes.

There’s an intimacy to holding hands. I don’t know anything like it.

How to Have Casual Sex Without Being a Jerk

July 12, 2021.Reading time 3 minutes.

Red lipstick kiss mark on white plaster wall

Do not lose sight of your sexual partner’s humanity.

On Reclaiming The Word “Slut”

April 13, 2021.Reading time 10 minutes.

I spent my teenage years terrified that I was a slut, and therefore I was not the type of girl who could be loved.

You Should Like The People You’re Having Sex With

April 3, 2021.Reading time 7 minutes.

Two smiling women are in bed together. One woman touches the other woman's cheek.

The best casual sex — the best sex, period — happens between partners with a shared investment in each other’s wellbeing.

Am I Bisexual Enough For You?

March 15, 2021.Reading time 14 minutes.

Women fill me with warm fear. I do not know how to flirt with them, or even how to formulate complete sentences.

When Your One-Night-Stand Ignores You On Campus

January 31, 2021.Reading time 7 minutes.

How humiliating and bizarre, to feel so close to someone and then watch him bolt out of the cafeteria when you got up to refill your Diet Coke.

BREAKUP SEX

January 18, 2021.Reading time 36 minutes.

Sex can be a vital language for two people who have run out of words, or for whom words are cheap and ineffective, unable to capture the wealth of tangled emotion still living in their chests.