I, Ella Dawson, Am a Slut with Herpes
I lost my virginity at eighteen, because real sluts wait until they can also vote and buy lottery tickets.
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It’s STD Awareness Month 2016. Why Aren’t We Celebrating?
STD awareness is celebrating us, the people who live with STDs and dare to be, y’know, okay.
Read MoreThe Herpes Interviews: The Guy From The Bar
“I think the fact that I’m here tonight after five weeks speaks for itself.”
Read MoreElla’s Guide To Texting Your Potential Bae
I’ve earned a reputation for being an assertive, direct person when it comes to letting someone know that I’m interested, romantically or sexually. What I haven’t talked about much is that many of those “hey, I want to bone you” conversations have happened over text message, when I couldn’t see the person’s face and they couldn’t see mine. […]
Read MoreBachelorella: The Bachelorette’s Nightmare Non-monogamy
I took a break from Bachelorella recaps because much of this season has been composed of cringe-inducing group dates and unnecessary confrontations. But I needed to come back this week because, in case you hadn’t heard, Kaitlyn got laid on national television. Reactions to Kaitlyn gettin’ some swung in two directions: the online media rolled […]
Read MoreHerpes, Two Years Later: On Sex Without Condoms
Can you have sex without condoms if you have genital herpes?
Read MoreThe Herpes Interviews: that wrestler I dated
When I discovered April was STD awareness month, I immediately knew I wanted to do a series on my blog to celebrate it. After all, I am a human lady person living with genital herpes, and the fun of publicly decimating STD stigma has yet to wear off (if it ever will). But what do people […]
Read MoreIn honor of Erotic World Book Day, let’s read my first erotica.
The first erotic story I ever wrote was actually Harry Potter fan fiction in which Hermione went to the Room of Requirement for some stress relief. I was 13.
Read MoreMy Characters Care About Safe Sex Because I Have To
I, as a real life person, have herpes. According to stigma, no sex I ever have will be safe.
Read MoreWriting The Other Love: Intimacy in Hookup Erotica
What do we call the non-loves? Or the almost loves? Or the could be loves, if things were different, if we let ourselves?
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